Fear - a very common phrase

Fear , what is it ?? what makes fear symbolise weakness in guys and doesnt put much implications in girls and most often or always the ruin of a good relationship.

Fear in itself is just another natural emotion, given to living creatures by nature to escape from danger and make them sustain in such an unpredictable world.I would definitely be right when I say , Fear is too general a term , there are
many types of Fear.

firstly ,

Fear that comes from memory, most people with different problems like fear of dogs , would have had a bad experiance with one , or seen or heard of a dangerous encounter with a dog at an impressionable age.

This kind of fear, can be removed easily , by the person , by not trying to suppress it but overcome it.Like by introspecting on what he fears and doing the thing which he fears of doing with determination.

" A man who is fearless is merely fearless , A man who acts inspite of his fears is truly brave "

( "when i say man , I mean mankind , so all U women readers out there do accept with it " )

Secondly,
The next type is, Instinctive fear.

Most beasts have this too , animals for example the prey always fears the predator.
the deer fears the tiger , the antelopes fear the cheetah , its this kind of fear.
that comes instinctively to them through generations.

Even humans have this kind of instinctive fear, most people have instinctive fear at their young ages, for example in a very god fearing family , the child grows up fearing god too..

Or another instinctive fear to people is the unknown , we people are always subject to fearing the unknown.
"The known devil is better than the unknown angel " they say...

Every child is scared of water when he is about to dive into it for the first time, he fears it , but u will see he overcomes it once he sees its a thrilling dive , and maybe he would even want to do it again....

Instinctive fear cannot be removed by will power at such a small age, its removed only by the encouragement , and support given by family or friends.

thirdly,

Fear due to doubt, A doubt whether u would be able to accomplish a certain task , gives u a fear , a fear that kills the spirit within , drains the mind, strips u of joy... this is the worst form of fear and the form by which everyone , almost everyone suffers...

When u doubt whether u will get through an exam or not, u get nervous about it.
when u doubt if your parents will accept ur result in a happy way or would there be a cane waiting for you , You get tense..

When you doubt whether you are in love with the right person , or whether your choice is right , there is a problem in the relationship.

all these are showing fear...

Fear of doubt always comes with fear of failure... both are inter-related , like siblings almost.

The only way u can eliminate this kind of fear is.....

3 magic words can sum it all up, the method to overcome this fear....

TRUST , LOVE , FAITH

when these three are in unision the person will be truly courageous...

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until next time..